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Hekmatullah Nafe

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Busan city, South Korea

Welcome

All credits for the ultimate Benefactor, and may His salutations be upon the final light of guidance, his family, companions, and

all those who benefit from his light until the last day.

(7) Be Serving - Your Motivation – The Most Flaming Fuel of Your Life

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Be Serving

Life is not fully enjoyed if you don’t know why you doing what you doing. The ultimate purpose of life for everybody is to enjoy and be thankful for all pleasures he receives, and be steadfast, get stronger, learn, and feel more complete at the times of adversities, and using those two types of experiences to contribute and make the world a better and fairer place for all, and finally leave an eternal legacy to present to the Ultimate Benefactor of life (Allaah) to earn more pleasure (Paradise).

Zoom of Service

Parents

Wife/children

Friends and Colleagues

Community

Orphans

Homeless people

The people under poverty line

(6) Be Successful - Your Capital – The Most Secure Ladder of Your Freedom

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Be Successful

Life will be very exciting when you feel independent, particularly financial independence. Remember, you must work hard, add values in people’s lives through your professional, and non-professional abilities. If you can mass produce your abilities, you will receive more financial abundance.

Quotes to BE Successful:

“The upper hand is better than the lower hand (it is better to give than to receive).” By Time Magazine, the most influential human being of all times, Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be on him).

“A constant struggle, a ceaseless battle to bring success from inhospitable surroundings, is the price of all great achievements.” Orison Swett Marden

Big pay and little responsibility are circumstances seldom found together. Napoleon Hill

It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed.Napoleon Hill

Nature cannot be tricked or cheated. She will give up to you the object of your struggles only after you have paid her price. Napoleon Hill

Persistence is to the character of man as carbon is to steel. Napoleon Hill

The ladder of success is never crowded at the top. Napoleon Hill

The majority of men meet with failure because of their lack of persistence in creating new plans to take the place of those which fail. Hekmatullah Nafe

It has always been my belief that a man should do his best, regardless of how much he receives for his services, or the number of people he may be serving or the class of people served. Napoleon Hill

Reduce your plan to writing. The moment you complete this, you will have definitely given concrete form to the intangible desire. Napoleon Hill

Dec 17, 2010

By Hekmatullah Nafe

Busan City, South Korea

(5) Be Supportive - Your Group - The Ultimate Source of Your Power

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Be Supportive

Remember, the person that you spend time with is EXACTLY You! If that person is inspirational, you are inspirational. If that person has a definite purpose in life, you have a definite purpose in life. If that person is striving and diligent, you are striving and diligent. If that person is financially independent, you are financially independent. If that person honest, you are honest. If that person has an organized, prioritized, and planned life, you have an organized, prioritized, and planned life. If that person severs others, you sever others. If that person serves the majority, you serve the majority. If that person believes he is valuable, you believe you are valuable. If that person is punctual, you are punctual. If that person empathizes, you empathize. If that person is supportive, you are supportive. If that person communicates effectively, you communicated effectively. If that person is a leader, you are a leader. If that person is a force for good, you are a force for good. If that person is grateful in his life, you are grateful in your life. If that person is strong enough that can always defeat the adversities of life, you are strong enough that can always defeat the adversities of life. If that person is persistent, you are persistent. If that person constantly improves everything, you constantly improve everything.

Therefore, choose you most reliable friend or associate wisely because he will determine a part of your destiny.

Once you have him, you must, must, must form a group, or unite with their group, and go ahead in life.

Quotes to BE Supportive:

“Hold on to the rope of Allaah (swt) unitedly and do not be divided.” the Creator

“The helping-hand of Allaah (swt) in upon the united community.” Prophet Muhammad (saws)

“Coordination of knowledge and effort, in a spirit of harmony, between two or more people, for the attainment of a definite desire … is essential.” Napoleon Hill

Before success comes in any man's life, he's sure to meet with much temporary defeat and, perhaps some failures. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and the most logical thing to do is to quit. That's exactly what the majority of men do. Napoleon Hill

Dec 16, 2010

Hekmatullah Nafe

(4) Be Searching - Your Profession – The Navigator of Your Happiness

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Economic Mastery

Microeconomic Principles

Macroeconomic Principles

Basic Mathematics for Economists 1

Introduction to Statistical Theory & Methods Or

Introduction to Probability and Statistical Inference

Intermediate Microeconomics

Intermediate Macroeconomics

Introductory Econometrics Or HE204B Principles of Econometrics

Political Economy of East Asia

International Trade

International Monetary Economics

Money and Banking

Public Finance

Industrial Organisation

Development Economics

Labour Economics and Labour Relations

Economic Thought

Survey Methods & Sampling Techniques

Mathematical Economics

Game Theory & Applications to Social Sciences

The Chinese Economy

Health Economics

Environmental Economics

Urban & Transport Economics

Financial Economics

Population Economics

Energy Economics

Cost-Benefit Analysis

Applied Econometrics

Intermediate Econometrics

Econometric Modeling & Forecasting

Econometric Analysis of Financial Data

Advanced Microeconomics

Advanced Macroeconomics

Advanced International Finance

Behavioural Economics

Growth Theory and Empirics

Seminar on the Singapore Economy

Current Topics in Economics

Econometric Time Series Analysis

Advanced Econometrics

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Job Prospects for Economists

Almost at any university in the world, especially in this Information Age

Government Agencies

Setting a Consulting Company

Setting or Working in Investment Company

Working in Major Corporations

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Economic Questions

Economics, Paul Krugman, Robin Wells

Introduction to Economy

How does our economic system work? That is, how does it manage to deliver the goods?

When and why does our economic system go astray, leading people into counterproductive behavior?

Why are there ups and downs in the economy? That is, why does the economy sometimes have a “bad year”?

Finally, why is the long run mainly story of ups rather than downs? That is, why has America, along with other advanced nations, become so much richer over time?

Chapter 1 – First Principles

What is the supposed set of principles for understanding the economics of how individuals make choices?

What is the supposed set of principles for understanding how individual choices interact?

Chapter 2 – Economic Models: Trade-offs and Trade

What is an economic model? Why models play a crucial role in economics?

What is production possibility frontier? How can it help to understand economy of a society?

What is comparative advantage? How can it help to understand economy of a society?

What is circular-flow diagram? How can it help to understand economy of a society?

What is positive economics? How can it help to understand economy of a society?

What is normative economics? How can it help to understand economy of a society?

When economists agree? When economists disagree?

Chapter 3 – Supply and Demand

What is a competitive market? How it is described by the supply and demand model? What supply and demand model?

What is demand curve? What is supply curve?

What is movements along a curve? What is shifts of a curve? What are the differences between the two?

How the supply and demand curves determine a market’s equilibrium price and equilibrium quantity?

What is a shortage or surplus case? in the case of a shortage or surplus, how prince moves the market back to equilibrium?

Chapter 4 – The Market Strikes Back

What is a government control? What is the meaning of price controls? and quantity controls?

How price and quantity controls create problems and make a market inefficient?

Why economists are often deeply skeptical of attempts to intervene in markets?

Who benefits and who loses from market interventions, and why they are used despite their well-known problems?

What an excite tax is and why its effect is similar to a quantity control?

Why the deadweight loss of a tax means that its true cost is more than the amount of tax revenue collected?

2010, Dec 16

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Why Study Economics???

1) "The upper hand is better than the lower hand" That is, it is better to give than to receive.

2) Making a contribution to the overall economy of the world. ("You can have whatever you want if you are willing to pay the price - focus, massive action, right model, and remove contradictions.)

3) Making a contribution to the over all economy of the Ummah. ("A year of research is better than 70 years of worship.)

4) Establishing stepping-stones to stabilize world economy based on Zakah (2.5% donation).

5) Economy is one the neglected subjects among the Ummah.

6) Right use of the Resources of the Ummah.

7) Winning a Noble Prize on economics.

8) A light in my final bed.

9) A credit on the day of final accountability.

10) A financial skyrocket in the lives of oppressed, and underprivileged.

11) A means to attain my dream of building 100+ orphanages.

12) A means to attain my dream of writing 100+ books.

13) A means to attain my dream of building 100+ houses for worshipers.

14) A means to attain my dream of having a big circle of children and grandchildren.

15) ...

2010, Dec 16

Busan City, SK

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Profession ???

What is a profession? A profession is a paid occupation, especially one that involves prolonged training and a formal qualification (Oxford). Therefore, is it is essential for every human being to have one or multiple professions.

Now,

What is your profession? That is, what are you excellent at doing? and what are you passionate doing at?

Please identify your talents (what you are excellent doing at) and your passions (what you love doing). Ideally, your talents and passions should be combined together in a profession that pays enough compensation (money), and that profession add value, or serve the human needs in a principled way.

Please fill in the blacks to identify your profession:

Profession Preference Proof (PPP):

(1) What do you love to do, example, business, teaching, ...? ( )

(2) What are you excellent doing at, example, communication, empathy, critical thinking, meeting new people, ....? ( )

(3) Does doing what you love and excellent at pay you enough compensation (money), example, $100,000/1year? ( )

(4) Does doing what you love and excellent at serve the human needs in a principled way, example, an doctor treating a client,...? ( )

In conclusion, your profession must be something that you love, excellent at doing it, pays enough money, serve the human needs or add values in others' lives.

By Hekmatullah Nafe
2010, Dec, 14

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(3) Be Sexy - Your Relationship – The Most Comfortable Voice of Your Peace

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Be Sexy

By being sexy I mean that you pay attention to yourself when making relationships with others. Remember, the most important, joyful, and intimate relationship is with your relationship with your partner, or lover, or spouse, or husband, or wife. If ask me who should I love most? I tell you: love your wife most!!!

Here are some ideas to keep your relationship with your wife/husband always sexy and vital:

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Good Smell

Clear Appearance

Clean Body

Warm Handshake

Sif or Hif Ideology (SIF – She Is First or He is First)

Physical Closeness

Gentle Hug

Romance

Varieties and Travels

Twice a day 300 second ‘watik’ (watik=Wet And Tongue-In Kiss!)

Passionate, Hungry bilfi Affair (bilfi=Bedroom Is Locked From Inside!)

Tender, empathetic, supportive, loving, frequent, and long Conversations

Quotes on Sexiness/Relationship

“Every idea is an incitement... Eloquence may set fire to reason.” Oliver Wendell Holmes

Men of age object too much, consult too long, adventure too little, repent too soon, and seldom drive business home to the full period, but content themselves with a mediocrity of success. Dale Carnegie

We all have possibilities we don't know about. We can do things we don't even dream we can do. Dale Carnegie

Your purpose is to make your audience see what you saw, hear what you heard, feel what you felt. Relevant detail, couched in concrete, colorful language, is the best way to recreate the incident as it happened and to picture it for the audience. Dale Carnegie

If you must speak ill of another, do not speak it, write it in the sand near the water's edge. Napoleon Hill

Think twice before you speak, because your words and influence will plant the seed of either success or failure in the mind of another. Napoleon Hill

Understand this law and you will then know, beyond room for the slightest doubt, that you are constantly punishing yourself for every wrong you commit and rewarding yourself for every act of constructive conduct in which you indulge. Napoleon Hill

Dec 17, 2010

Hekmatullah Nafe

(2) Be Strong - Your Body – The Vehicle of Your Accomplishments

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Be Strong

“The strong person is better and more loved than weak person.”, A man of great strength

All great accomplishments are achieved by great people, and all great people achieved great accomplishment when they were HEALTHY and STRONG.

Signs of strongness

Beef breathing

Passion for sex

Excited eater (he feels excited when he does NOT eat unhealthy)

Daring drinker (he can dare NOT to drink unhealthy)

Booming Blood Blow, exercise, (ideal heart rate: 180 – your age)

Focus Forward

Learning Life

Endless Endurance

Fiber Flexibility

Sever Strength

Still Sleep

“The last three or four reps is what makes the muscle grow. This area of pain divides the champion from someone else who is not a champion. That's what most people lack, having the guts to go on and just say they'll go through the pain no matter what happens.” Arnold Schwarzenegger

Do the hard jobs first. The easy jobs will take care of themselves. Dale Carnegie

Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle. Napoleon Hill

Hekmatullah Nafe

Dec 16, 2010

(1) Be Stressless - Your Mind – The Magnetic Force of Your Attraction

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Secrets of Spirit

Comparative Vocabulary

Body = the Country

Physical Heart = the Capital

Spiritual Heart (inside the physical heart) = the Palace

Spirit = the President

Mind/Intellect = the PM, the Chief Advisor of Spirit, the Organizer of Infos,

Eyes, ears, nose, mouth, (touching sense) = The four windows of information about the Capital

Nafs = the Opposition Leader

Goal = Goveranance of the Palace either by Spirit or Nafs

Tools of Nafs = Worldly materials, the visible

Tools of Spirit = Hereafter materials, the invisible

Physical Heart = the Battlefield

Dece, 18 2010

HN

Source:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oX4LNuB9sO4&NR=1

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Value of Useful Knowledge - Right Education!

I have three things to tell you here:

Remember, a world class education is the ultimate poison of poverty. Remember, you must do – as a profession – what you love, excellent at doing it, and can earn a living, or a billion living from it. Remember, you must constantly, nonstop improve and deepen your professional knowledge, and your knowledge of the world on a systematic way.

Here are few Quotes:

Create a definite plan for carrying out your desire and begin at once, whether you ready or not, to put this plan into action. Napoleon Hill

Don't wait. The time will never be just right. Napoleon Hill

First comes thought; then organization of that thought, into ideas and plans; then transformation of those plans into reality. The beginning, as you will observe, is in your imagination. Napoleon Hill

Wise men, when in doubt whether to speak or to keep quiet, give themselves the benefit of the doubt, and remain silent. Napoleon Hill

Your ability to use the principle of autosuggestion will depend, very largely, upon your capacity to concentrate upon a given desire until that desire becomes a burning obsession.

Napoleon Hill

our big opportunity may be right where you are now. Napoleon Hill

The best way to sell yourself to others is first to sell the others to yourself. Napoleon Hill

Education is the passport to the future, for tomorrow belongs to those who prepare for it today. Malcolm X

My Alma mater was books, a good library... I could spend the rest of my life reading, just satisfying my curiosity. Malcolm X

Dec 16, 2010

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Be Stressless

“The BEST human being is the one who has the BEST Demeanor.”

A Man Of Great Demeanor

What is Stresslessness?

Stresslessness is state of mind, or an overall demeanor. What is a demeanor? Demeanor is an attitude. Demeanor is the best picture of your internal world. Demeanor is the map of your mind. Demeanor is the crown of character. Demeanor is the gadget of your emotional fitness. Demeanor is the final result of your life up to now. Demeanor is the indicator of your satisfaction of your life. Demeanor is the predictor of your future. Demeanor is the essence of your life. So, having a stressless – magnetic, wholesome, bright, calm, balanced, and graceful demeanor is the first step towards being a complete human being. The opposite of this is a stressful demeanor which is the most dangerous existence to you, and must be always put to end. Therefore, having a stressless demeanor is the most important thing in life.

What are the Signs of Stresslessness

Smile, Well-thought- out Speeches, Calmness of gestures and manners,

Definite Life Purpose, Definite Plans, Decisiveness, Courage, Diligence, Certainty, Confidence, Passion, Creativity, Generosity, Listening Empathetically, Imagination or visualization, Motivated, Deep sleep, Cooperation, Proportioned Foods and Drinks, Inspiring voice

Quotes to Be Stressless

“There shall be nothing for a man except what he strives for.” By the Ultimate Giver of human freewill, Allah (the Most Glorious, the Most High)

“The best human beings are those who have the best demeanor.” by Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be on him)

“Opportunity has a sly habit of slipping in by the back door, and often it comes disguised in the form of misfortune, or temporary defeat. Perhaps this is why so many people fail to recognize opportunity.” By Napoleon Hill

There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time. Malcolm X

Develop success from failures. Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success. Dale Carnegie Dale Carnegie

Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed on an equal or greater benefit. Dale Carnegie

Edison failed 10, 000 times before he made the electric light. Do not be discouraged if you fail a few times. Dale Carnegie

Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy. Dale Carnegie

Fear doesn't exist anywhere except in the mind. Dale Carnegie

It takes half your life before you discover life is a do-it-yourself project.Napoleon Hill

Nature cannot be tricked or cheated. She will give up to you the object of your struggles only after you have paid her price. Napoleon Hill

The way to develop decisiveness is to start right where you are, with the very next question you face. Napoleon Hill

here is one quality which one must possess to win, and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants, and a burning desire to possess it NH

When defeat comes, accept it as a signal that your plans are not sound, rebuild those plans, and set sail once more toward your coveted goal.Napoleon Hill

When your desires are strong enough you will appear to possess superhuman powers to achieve.Napoleon Hill

"The son loves the earth, so he gives light to her - thus the son is always happy and cheerful. Likewise, if you do what you love - you will give all your energy to it - thus you too will be always happy and cheerful." Hekmatullah Nafe

“The son constantly gives all her energy to what is around her to live and succeed. As a result, she shines, all need her, all support her, all cherish her, all value her, and all love her. You too, if you give all your energy to those around you to succeed, you will shine, you will be needed, you will be supported, you will be cherished, you will be valued, and you will be loved. – The Key of your happiness is Action – to help others to succeed!” Hekmatullah Nafe

“When you're feeling down just keep your head up high and don't think of the whole big thing. Just focus on doing one thing at a time. You'll see that you will accomplish a lot, if not everything at the end of the day. And before you start, give thanks to God. This will clear up a lot of the blunders of the day. Discouragement creates a multitude of discouragement so it is good that you catch and stop it before it does.” L. R. Haake

Dec 16, 2010

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Moring Power Questions

Our life experience is based on what we focus on. The following questions are designed to cause me to experience more happiness, excitement, pride, gratitude, joy, commitment, and love every day of my life. Remember, quality questions create a quality life.

Come up with two or three answers to all of these questions and feel fully associated. If you have difficulty discover an answer, simply add the world “could”. Example: “What could I be most happy about in my life now?”

1. What am I happy in my life now?

What about that makes me happy? How does that make me feel?

Allah is my Rabb (cherisher, protector, guide, helper, eternal friend)

Islam/obedience in my way of life (thinking, feeling, acting)

Muhammad (saws) is my role model (thinking, feeling, acting)

2. What am I excited about in my life now?

What about that makes me excited? How does that make me feel?

Death, Barzakh (interspace life), Day of Judgement, Paradise

3. What am I proud about in my life now?

What about that makes me proud? How does that make me feel?

Allah is my eternal friend and ally.

Muhammad (saws) – my eternal role model is the most successful human being ever.

Islam and the Qur’an is the best book of guidance and manual of success.

4. What am I grateful about in my life now?

What about that makes me grateful? How does that make me feel?

eyes, ears, mind, heart, and all body, and personal achievements

family, and Muslim communities

being a servant of Allah, through Islam, and Messengership of Muhammad (saws)

5. What am I enjoying most in my life now?

What about that makes me enjoying? How does that make me feel?

Salah, Morning & Evening Azkar, Fasting, Orphanage, work of Dawah,

6. What am I committed to in my life now?

What about that makes me commited? How does that make me feel?

7. Who do I love? Who loves me?

What about that makes me loving? How does that make me feel?

In the evening, sometimes I ask the Morning Questions, and sometimes I ask an additional three questions. Here they are:

The Evening Power Questions

1. What have I given today?

In what ways have I been a giver today?

2. What did I learn today?

3. How has today added to the quality of my life OR how can I use today as an investment in my future?

(Repeat the Morning Questions [optional])

Supplementary Questions:

How can I feel more certainty, or comfort, or maximize pleasure and minimize pain?

How can I feel more uncertainty, or variety?

How can I feel more significant, special, important, influential, needed?

How can I more progress and grow today in my works?

How can I more progress and grow today in my finances?

How can I more progress and grow today in my spiritualities?

How can I more progress and grow today in my metal life?

How can I more progress and grow today in my body?

How can I more progress and grow today in my relationships?

How can I more contribute today?

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5Ps of Progress

"Progress equals happiness." are you progressing everyday? have you balanced your daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly activities in away that you can measure it accordingly. If yes, that is nice. And if no, that is nice. In either case take a look at the following suggestion 5Ps of Progress - Profession, Profit, Personal relation, Promotion of self, and Powerful service - to balance and progress you all activities.

1) Profession: what is the area of your specialized knowledge?

2) Profit: how much capital do you allocate monthly for uplifting the underprivileged people? how much value do you add or much money do you make? how much do you save? how much do you invest? how much do you allocate for uplifting the underprivileged people?

3) Personal Relationship: who do you love? who loves you? who are your intimate friends? what and how are you strengthening your relations?

4) Promotion of Self: how strong, endurant, and flexible your body is? how much world history do you know? how much are you familiar with current national, international social, economical, and political issues?

5) Powerful Service: what is your purpose in life? how much gratitude do you express to your Creator? how close your relationship is with Him? how do you demonstrate your relationship with your Creator through serving human needs in a principled way?

In conclusion, Now, take little time to write a reply to each one, you may add more Questions. After your replied, and took ACTION to do those things, and measure yourself daily. I am sure you will a lot of burden or stress relieved. Remember, if you don't somehow balance, measure, and progress in life, your head is and will be a mess - full of stress.

Thanks for considering.

By Hekmatullah Nafe

2010/12/04